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Thursday, 3 October 2019

The Festive Spirit


Wherever he looked, Ramesh saw hoardings and advertisements of electronics, clothing, food and everything under the sun. The beginning of the festive season was when the whole world eagerly awaited the chance to splash and splurge, while he dreaded it. Shops overflowed with goods and people. 
Whatever he earned was never enough, not with six mouths to feed, shelter, clothe, educate, and treat for ailments. The festive bonus he’d received was sent to the village to help his sister’s family who were having a harder time than him, with a second consecutive year of drought. There was no question of having that extra money to buy new clothes and treats.
As he entered home he could hear his 8 year old son complaining to his wife when she reprimanded him for constantly pestering her for a pair of denim pants. “But aai, it's just not that special time of the year without new clothes! You know all my friends get new clothes for the festival!”
Ramesh called out, “Come here, Kunal. Tell your friends, it's not THAT time of the year by just wearing new clothes. It is THAT time of the year to be kind and generous. Do you know because of our little help, Anu athya’s family will have enough to eat for this whole month? If we had bought new clothes, they would all be sleeping on empty stomachs. Won't they be glad to have enough to eat and bless us? 
We will be going to the village for the festival. You will have plenty of fun with Varsha and Ajay lighting hundreds of diyas that kumbhari kaka makes.”
The child was thrilled to hear this. Ramesh continued, “And you know what? No one in the village has seen your clothes, anything you wear there will look new to them! Now that you both have grown so tall, you can collect some of your old clothes and toys and give it to the village children, they’ll be so happy to receive it. Now run along.” Kunal excitedly dragged in his younger sibling who was playing outside.
Ramesh exchanged a look of relief with his wife as they watched their two boys rummaging in the old trunk holding their belongings, searching for things to gift their lesser fortunate village friends.

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Glossary
aai - mother
athya - aunt - father's sister
diyas - earthern lamps
kumbhari kaka - potter uncle


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Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.
- Buddha

Buddha quote

I am participating in the #WordsMatter Bloghop. The prompt this time was "It's not that time of the year without..."
I received this tag from Mahati Ramya at Fantastic Feathers. It’s my pleasure to pass on this tag to Suchita Agarwal at Tales of Suchita. There are 38 of us on this Blog Hop and it will be spread over 3 days – 4, 5, 6 October  2019. Do follow the #WordsMatter Blog Hop and prepare to be surprised!

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So beautiful, Kala, wonderful message! Indeed, it's gifts like kindness and generosity when shared that light up candles of joy and happiness in each other's hearts. No better way of celebration than this.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
Very good message for the festival season Kala.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
It is important to talk and explain to the children why certain things happen in life. This is a lovely parenting lesson. Not many people are willing to share their hardships and other people's hardships with their children and they grow up in a sheltered bubble. Instilling compassion during the festive season and beyond... it's definitely that time of the year for it! Well done.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
It was quite smart of Ramesh in handling the situation with his son. Also, the son's attitude is worth appreciating as he understood the father's rationale. It is a nice take on the prompt, Kala.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
This reminded me of my Mom. We never got new clothes for Christmas because she said that it would distract us from the spiritual aspect of the festival. New clothes were for other times in the year.
Very meaningful post, Kala.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
What a heart warming post, Kala. You so well reminded the importance of festivals and that it is not just about clothes and material things but giving.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
This is such an important message for everyone. Loved reading this one!
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
I am glad you brought out this side of festivals. What was even more heart warming was that a person who seemed to have so little could still think of giving, rather than regretting that he wasn't getting much. Ramesh was a good dad.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
Lovely way to initiate the thought that festivals are for giving to others and not just receiving as we all do most of the time! I'm glad the children took it in the right spirit and could rejoice thinking of the simple joys of life that being charitable could bring them. What a lovely thought-provoking post, Kala!
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
What a lovely story about sharing and caring .
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
What a lovely story Kala about the joy of giving. Its tough on loads of people to be festive at such times and if we could all think of giving out things we have been hoarding to light up their homes, it would do so much good.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
Super heartwarming, thoughtful, kind post. Loved it.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
Such a nice, heart warming tale, Kala. Indeed, festivals is so much about generosity and giving instead of consuming and buying. But, aren't we all just forgetting that part?
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
Such a beautiful way of explaining the meaning of festivals! Very often we forget the spirit in search of the materialistic.
1 reply · active 283 weeks ago
What a wonderful way to teach an important life lesson. Loved reading this heart-warming story, Kala!!
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Moderngypsy.in · 283 weeks ago

What a wonderful message, Kala, and such a heart warming story. Indeed, it’s not that time of the year if we cannot be generous and giving to those less fortunate than us.
Beautiful message. Loved the way mom explained to kids about helping others and making someone else's life better.
I appreciate this thoughtful post. Most of us forget that festivals are meant to encourage 'the joy of giving' but we are always busy with 'joy of getting'. We should encourage our kids to five more. Really enjoyed this post.

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